Top Tip: Feel free to focus on your a) ideal lifestyle and/or b) business/ career and just let it out. Assume there are no barriers at all. Don’t be shy. Explore!
I’m in a transitional phase, in limbo, in the in-between, and I’ve felt like this for at least 3 years.
I just let go of a [romantic] relationship that wasn’t serving me well. Saying no. Closing doors. Clearing space for new opportunities, and growth.
The thing is, I feel ALIVE and healthy and reinvigorated. Sometimes, saying no is saying HELL YES to yourself.
Letting that mental and emotional energy that you just had for another person go so you can be selfish (in a good way) and take care of yourself. I often find myself neglecting who I am in a relationship, spending too much energy taking care and nurturing the other person that I forget to take care and nurture myself.
It’s not that I completely neglect myself. I still work towards what I want. But I do it in a passive way. I do it half-assed. And I have no one to blame but myself.
I’ve finally realized that taking ACTION is the only way to get through a transition. I’ve been feeling “in limbo” for way too long because I haven’t been taking enough action.
So now I recalibrate. Now I take ACTION. And it feels fun and exciting and new again. It feels like I’m on the brink to something amazing. And I’m on a mission.
I Just Want to Be ME
I want to discover my radiant goddess within me. Shine that crazy diamond. Shine bright.
My ideal lifestyle looks like fun and play. Everything comes out of ease and joy.
Morning would be my “morning ritual”. Each morning, I’d start the day off with at least one hour of self-care and self-love. This can look different from day-to-day but the intention is the same. I’m not good with keeping up with habits and I freak out when I have to commit to something daily. Daily meditation? Daily yoga? Daily morning jog? Forget it. Might as well throw “ritual” out the window.
Instead, I focus on what feels good for me in that moment. In that way, I trick myself from thinking of it as a luxury and not a chore. I hate chores.
This is something I should want to do, not something I have to do because I’ve placed a silly rule or schedule for myself.
The luxury to play and explore what morning ritual is each day could mean various sorts of things like yoga, meditation, reading a good book, writing, taking a walk, jogging, dancing, playing music, or enjoying a green smoothie.
This morning it looked like a 10 minute meditation with Susan Piver, green smoothies & bacon, and a backyard yoga session!
I just want to be me, and I want the luxury to be able to explore what that is.
It’s no secret that I love travel and exploration. I’m enamored by the bohemian lifestyle, the beatnik generation, the open road. I once walked 800 km in Palawan, Philippines and I want to do more long distance trekking.
But for as much as I love to explore foreign places, I love even more exploring the inner depths of self.
I THRIVE on self-help/inner-work and clarity.
My ideal lifestyle means I have a sustainable online business that can take me anywhere around the world to fund my adventures. I wouldn’t want to be a perpetual nomad, but I wouldn’t want to live with rent and contracts either. I would love to be “based” in a paradise from home surrounded by nature. Co-ops and eco-treehouses and tiny houses come to mind, all wrapped around a social enterprise (that I help build, of course) that’s sustainable with permaculture gardens and communal spaces for yoga, and various workshops.
My lifestyle affords me the luxury to live a perpetual vacation and invest in myself. I work with clients I love that are holistic, creative and heart-centered. I design websites, ebooks and help launch projects from idea to creation. I write memoirs, erotica, and paranormal romance novels. I have my own products and help people every day with the value that I create.
I hold space for other people to shine.
I approach it holistically, in ways that can help you manifest your dreams or desired outcome. Then I work with you to build and design your website/e-book/product so your offering has the midas touch of creativity and your grand vision displayed in visual form; that extra oomph and marketability to make your offer or web presence SHINE. I want the feeling you have with your own inner-workshine to match the external product so you feel 100% connected. That’s what I want to create for myself… and that’s what I want to create for you.
I feel a new signature offering is in the works. If you’re interested in beta testing, if this sounds good for you, give me an email and we’ll go from there.
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